Wednesday, February 27, 2008

"I'm right here"

It was dinner time, so I fed Avery and then put her in this activity center / exersaucer / piano thing in the living room. It's a great way for her to stand up (which she loves to do) and when her feet hit the piano keys, it plays music. It's hard to explain, so obviously, I should have a picture to accompany this post, but I don't ... I promise to post one soon as a follow up, though! Anyway, it kept Avery busy while I went into the kitchen to cook dinner. I kept Reagan occupied at her little table in the kitchen with some paper and her favorite watercolor paints. After about 20 minutes in the "piano," Avery was getting bored (and probably lonely), so she started making some small cries. I remember when I used to put Reagan in this same piano and I would feel so guilty for doing so ... even though she was happy, perfectly safe, and entertained/stimulated in it, I felt like a bad mom. As soon as she would make the smallest cry, I'd pull her out of it. Everyone tells you how different you are as a parent to the second child, and sure enough, it's true. I have no reservations about placing Avery in the piano and I certainly don't pull her out the minute I hear a whimper! So, Reagan was painting and when she heard Avery cry, she said, "What was that?" She's been saying this a lot lately ... whenever she hears a sound in the house, she looks at me with a very thoughtful expression and asks, "What was that?" Sometimes she'll answer her own question, as she did tonight. She said, "Avery's crying. She's sad." I watched Reagan get up from her table and go into the living room to check on her baby sister. I followed her and felt lucky to witness her giving Avery a dose of sweet sisterly love. She gently touched Avery on the head and said, "It's okay, Avery. I'm right here." My heart melted as I listened to my 2-year old repeat the words she's heard me use when consoling Avery. Reagan is SO good with her baby sister. She is kind and loving toward Avery and always makes her smile. I feel so lucky to have both my girls and I look forward to watching them grow up together.

Okay ... I'm updating this post today (2-29-08) with two pictures of Avery in the "piano" so you can get a visual.
2/28/08 ~ Don't you just love the chubby thighs?

2/28/08 ~ Happy Avery

Monday, February 25, 2008

Avery and Reagan 2/22/08


Things have been pretty hectic here which means I am really behind on downloading pictures from my camera ... so you'll have to settle for these two pics that I took using my iPhone a few days ago. To be honest, I'm pretty impressed with the quality, since it's a phone with only 2 megapixels and no flash.

Goodbye to Grandma Great

Thanks to all of you for your kind words of sympathy and support regarding the passing of my Grandma Great. I really appreciate all of your comments, emails and phone calls last week; they really helped me get through it. Obviously, when you have a great grandmother who has been around for a century, you know you'll have to grieve her passing eventually ... I knew it was coming, but it was hard to deal with it, being so far away and unable to attend the funeral. The funeral was on Friday (2-22-08) and my family said it was just beautiful. My dad spoke, so he emailed me the words he had prepared. I was so touched to discover that my dad read most of my post about Grandma Great (from this blog) in his speech at the funeral. It made me feel like I was a part of the service and it gave me the closure I needed. So I want to tell my dad, THANK YOU, for including me in Grandma Great's funeral ... I love you, Dad!

Monday, February 18, 2008

Grandma Great

5 Generations!

How many 31 year olds can say they have a Great Grandmother? Probably not many, but until this morning, I was one of them. I was one of the lucky few to enjoy having a great grandmother for 31 years of my life. It is with great sadness that I bid her farewell today. Emily Luing was an amazing woman whom we always called "Grandma Great." Here is the link to her obituary: http://www.legacy.com/SaltLakeTribune/Obituaries.asp?Page=LifeStoryPrint&PersonID=103833089
I have often wondered if she ever realized the impact she had on this world ...
  • 5 Children
  • 20 Grandchildren
  • 52 Great Grandchildren
  • 36 Great Great Grandchildren
W O W !!!

One of the most impressive things about those statistics is that Grandma Great remembered everything about everyone! I was one of 52 great grandkids, yet she knew everything about me. She sent me a card for my birthday every single year. She came to every important event. Most importantly, she always made me feel special and loved, as if I were her only great grandchild. How lucky I was to have her in my life for so long.
For those of you who did not know her, here's some information you might find interesting. On June 17th, 1906 Emily Watson was born in Grimsby England. She lived in a small town on the coast where her father was a fisherman. She once told John and me that the smell there was so bad that "it would gag a maggot!" I'll never forget that line, along with other funny things she used to say. Grandma Great always had such funny things to say ... she never held back and her observations were usually right on. She and her family came to the US through Canada on her 16 birthday, (6/17/1922). The one thing she remembered most about that journey was that someone offered her a piece of grape flavored candy on the ship. From then on, she hated anything grape flavored. To this day, I can't look at anything grape flavored and not think of my Grandma Great.

Emily married Harry Luing and had 5 children, one of which was my grandmother, Betty (my father's mother). Emily was a widow for about the last 45 years, living independently in her own home until 2 1/2 years ago. I have so many memories of her old house in Salt Lake ... my dad would take my sisters and me there whenever we had a birthday. She had this fun tradition of letting us stick our hand in a huge glass jar full of pennies ... we had one shot each year to reach in and pull out as many pennies as our little hand could hold. Looking back, it was such a simple thing, yet we loved it and looked forward to it each year. We thought she was so rich! Another tradition was visiting Grandma Great on Christmas day each year at her home. I found this picture from 3 years ago, the last Christmas she spent in her home:

Christmas Day at Grandma Great's house 12-25-04

Here are a bunch of pictures I found from my visits to Salt Lake over the last 3 years:


6/19/05 - Just after her 99th Birthday - I was 10 weeks pregnant with Reagan

10/16/05 - She came to a baby shower my family threw for us - I had Reagan 6 weeks later

3/12/06 - Grandma Betty, Reagan, Grandma Great

6/17/06 - At Grandma Great's 100th Birthday Party

6/25/06 Reagan and Grandma Great

6/25/06 Reagan and Grandma Great

6/25/06 Grandma Great, Reagan and Amanda

9/5/06 Grandma Great and Reagan

9/5/06 Grandma Great, Reagan and Amanda

This is the last picture I have of Grandma Great and unfortunately, it was over a year ago. This was Christmas Day last year, 12/25/06. We didn't realize it at the time, but it was another 5 Generation picture!

I saw Grandma Great one last time on my last visit to Salt Lake, on June 30th, 2007. I was so upset that I left my camera at home that day, especially because I had one of those unforgettable moments as a parent. It was my very last day in town and I took Reagan with me to visit her. Right as I pulled into the parking lot, Reagan threw up everything in her stomach, covering herself in throw-up! Of course, this was the one time I was NOT prepared, so I had nothing to change her into. I stripped her down to her diaper in the parking lot, wrapped her in a beach towel that happened to be in the trunk of my mother's car, and went inside to see Grandma Great, despite the smell and appearance of my daughter!

I'll never forget Grandma Great ... she was such a big part of my life and I feel so incredibly blessed to have known her. I hope to have half as much energy as she did when I reach 100!

Happy 30th Birthday Nicole!!!

Today is my friend Nicole's 30th birthday! This picture was taken last night at her best friend's wedding in the city (she's going to regret sending it to me when she sees this post!). She's been a great friend to me and I admire her in so many ways. She has two beautiful children, Mia (2.5) and Bennett (almost 1) a loving husband (Chris) and a sweet dog (Champ). I love her kids, so I better post pictures of them too ...


Looking forward to celebrating her birthday at PF Changs on Wednesday night ... pictures to follow, I'm sure!

Saturday, February 16, 2008

Does the First Bite Taste Better?

I couldn't help but laugh when I looked over and saw this today:
I had been sitting on the couch, using the laptop, while Reagan was standing in front of me, eating some Ritz crackers. I found it funny that only one bite had been taken out of each cracker. These are the moments when I wish I had a glimpse into her cute little brain ... does the first bite taste better to her? Or does she like the shape it leaves? Was she thrown off because these happened to be "Roasted Vegetable" flavored Ritz? Did she not like the flavor and think the next one might taste differently? I tried asking her why she only ate one bite of each cracker, but I couldn't get an answer out of her. Hence, I'll just keep trying to figure out the logic of a 2-year-old, enjoying each and every puzzle she throws my way ...

My Girls on Valentine's Day

On Valentine's Day, I had put Avery in the chair as I was getting Reagan into her pajamas. Once Reagan was ready for bed, she told me she wanted to sit with Avery and she climbed up next to her on the chair. I didn't have my camera with me, but I had my iPhone, so I took this picture. The quality isn't the best, but I think it's the first time I've been able to capture both of them smiling.

Here is a cute picture I wanted to share of Avery:



Avery 02-07-08

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Avery's 3 Month Dr. Appointment

Yesterday was Avery's 3-Month Well Visit with Dr. Czernizer. As you can see by the picture, she weighed 13.2 pounds (which is almost 13 pounds, 4 ounces). Since she weighed 6 lbs. 10 oz. at birth, she has now exactly doubled her birth weight!! She is a healthy and happy little girl, with chubby little cheeks that are impossible not to kiss, several times each day :)

Sunday, February 10, 2008

Avery's Christening

Avery with her parents and her godparents


We had Avery's christening on Friday (2-8-08) in a small private service at St. Pius X Parish in Old Tappan. Father Patrick was the same priest who handled Reagan's christening two years ago and he was wonderful. He understood our situation and even though I'm not Catholic, he made sure I was a part of the ceremony. We asked John's cousin Jose (also known as Pepito) to be Avery's Godfather and John's cousin Nelly to be her Godmother. Nelly lives in Fort Myers, Florida so she and her husband Loo flew up for the weekend with their beautiful daughters Kialie (6) and Kalani (5). Immediately following the christening, we went to a nearby restaurant for dinner ... it was a very enjoyable evening with John's family! Here are lots of pictures from the event, since I had a hard time narrowing down my favorites.


John, Reagan, Amanda, Nelly, Avery, and Jose



The Baptism


The reason we were all smiling in the two pictures above is because Avery broke into the biggest grin when the priest poured the water over her head! Since she was so happy and content, I assumed the water was nice and warm, like bath water. When her little hair bow fell out and sunk to the bottom of the baptismal font, Nelly offered to reach in and retrieve it ... she was shocked when her skin hit the water, for it was ICE COLD! Nelly couldn't believe that Avery had been all smiles while the frigid water was poured over her head several times. I have a very easy-going little girl :)


Lauren, Doreen & Gabby ~ Loo, Nelly, Avery, Kialie & Kalani




Reagan ~ Reagan and Amanda


Kialie, Nelly, Avery and Kalani


Nelly, Avery and Nayda


Reagan having fun on the steps


Joaquin and his grandfather, Pepin



Joaquin and Maribel

I went back to my pictures from Reagan's christening and since I didn't have a blog back then, I figured I might as well post some pictures from hers as well. Her christening took place on February 11th, 2006. It was supposed to be on the 12th, but a huge snow storm was coming that day, so the priest (Father Patrick) arranged a private service for us on the 11th in order to beat the storm.

Reagan with her parents and godparents (John's brother Jesus and his cousin Maribel)


Amanda, Reagan and Maribel


John's Family


Alexis, Ethan, Jesus, Josh, and Debbie


John, his mother Nila, and Reagan


Friday morning at Wee Play

On Friday morning, Meredith and I decided to meet at Wee Play to let Reagan and Timmy run around together. Wee Play is a great indoor play place where Reagan has such a good time. The first time I took her there, she barely left my side ... now she runs around from one activity to the next and then falls asleep as soon as I get her in the car! I took some cute pictures of her that I wanted to share. These pictures really seem to show Reagan's personality:


Reagan on the Roller Coaster





The bruise on Reagan's right cheek was from her fall down the stairs the night before ... I was taking both girls upstairs for a bath and I told Reagan to wait at the bottom of the stairs while I took Avery up. Our stairs are made of slippery wood, so we always accompany her on the stairs and make her hold onto the rails. Of course, she loves stairs and it's been difficult trying to teach her they're not something to play on. By the time I was at the top of the stairs with Avery, I heard her crash (what a horrible sound!). She had only made it up to the small landing, so luckily, she only fell down two steps. Her cheek had direct contact with the tile floor at the base of the stairs, hence the big purple bruise. When I was dating John, I once slipped on one of the very top steps and then tumbled down the entire staircase. Slippery socks and our staircase are a very dangerous mix!



Timmy and Reagan taking a break ~ Meredith feeding Quinn

Reagan and Timmy jumping in the Bouncy Castle